What I would say
by beanalreasa
…to you if only you would listen:
I see that you are struggling, and perhaps you might assume that I have never struggled…and yet I have.
Everyone gets caught up in looking through the wrong end of their telescope at times.
bloodteethandflame 
Even if this isn’t directed at me, it’s true. I see your point. Or to use another phrase, I see through a glass darkly.